Welcome to your safe harbour.

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Hello, I’m Deborah.

I’m a trauma therapist and couples counsellor based in Singapore.

Are you a people-pleaser, always putting other people's needs above yours?

Does your life look great on the outside, while you constantly feel "not good enough"?

I help people recover from childhood trauma, abusive relationships, and unhealthy family patterns.

Using modalities such as schema therapy and Eye Movement Desensitisation and Reprocessing (EMDR), I’ll help you find the language to describe what you’ve been through and process your experiences.

And with Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), I’ll help you figure out ways to find healing and contentment and to lead a flourishing life that’s true to your personal values.

I also work with couples to repair and strengthen their relationships.

In Gottman Method couples counselling, you’ll learn skills to understand your partner better, communicate and manage conflicts more effectively, and make each other’s life dreams come true.

My approach is trauma-informed, non-judgemental, and LGBTQ+ affirming.

More about Deborah

Trauma therapy and couples counselling services in Singapore

Therapy with curiosity and compassion

No matter what you’re going through, I want you to know you are not broken.

You’ve done so well getting here. But you don’t have to go it alone. Let’s figure things out together.

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Couples counselling

If you and your partner struggle to communicate and keep having the same fights over and over again:

Learn skills to understand your partner better, communicate and manage conflicts more effectively, and make each other’s life dreams come true.

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EMDR therapy for trauma

Traumatic incidents can cause memories to get “stuck” in our brains.

Eye movement desensitization and reprocessing (EMDR) therapy makes distressing memories less painful, setting you free to flourish.

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Therapy for therapists

If you’re an early-career therapist (or any kind of helping professional):

I know how important it is to deal with your own stuff while seeing clients. Let’s get curious, not critical, about countertransference and what comes up for us in therapy.

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Flexible therapy options

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    In-person therapy at Tanjong Pagar

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    Online therapy

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    Free 15-min consultation call

Been feeling lost?

Start feeling like yourself again.

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