Trauma therapy & couples counselling in Singapore

Healing from painful memories • LGBTQ+ affirming • Free 15-min consultation

Feeling lost?

Stuck?

Not sure where to go or what to do?

Have you been trying your best to keep it together and not break down at work? Are you putting on a brave face for the people around you while you're drowning inside?

You used to be able to brush off little things.

But now the little things are big things and they're not going away.

You've tried everything. But it's not working.

You've run yourself ragged caring for other people. You've compromised so much you've lost sight of yourself.

And the stress is affecting your closest relationships. They can see something is wrong.

When life gets heavy, you don’t have to carry it alone.

I’m Deborah. I’m a trauma therapist and couples counsellor in Singapore.

I’m so glad you’ve found me.

Let me help me start feeling like yourself again.

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A woman with short dark hair, smiling, sitting on a colorful knitted blanket. She is wearing a cream-colored button-up shirt with sleeves rolled up.


What I can help with:

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    Therapy with curiosity and compassion

    I’ve worked with clients with anxiety and depression, complex PTSD, childhood trauma, attachment wounds, abusive partners, and narcissistic family members.

    What I’ve found transformational is just being kind to ourselves.

    That means honouring and appreciating the parts of us that are wounded, while never giving up hope that we can overcome anything life throws at us.

    You are not broken, and you are not alone.

  • A man and a woman are sitting on grey couch facing a professional in a clinical setting. The woman is wiping tears from her face.

    Couples counselling

    Are past painful experiences overshadowing your relationship and getting in the way of you loving each other?

    Are you exhausted from a cycle of fighting and making up (while still unsure if you can trust again)?

    In couples therapy, we’ll learn skills to communicate effectively and manage conflicts better.

    Let’s see if we can bring the love back into your life.

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    EMDR therapy for trauma

    Traumatic incidents can cause memories to get “stuck” in our brains.

    Eye movement desensitization and reprocessing (EMDR) therapy makes distressing memories less painful, setting you free to flourish.

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    LGBTQ+ affirming therapy

    My practice is a safe space for queer and LGBTQ+ identifying people. Everyone is welcome here.

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    Therapy for therapists

    If you’re an early-career therapist (or any kind of helping professional):

    I know how important it is to deal with your own stuff while seeing clients.

    Let’s get curious, not critical, about countertransference and what comes up for us in therapy.

    I’ll support you on your journey towards self-knowledge and trusting yourself.

  • Clinical supervision

    Starting in October

    Please get in touch for more information

Flexible therapy options

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    In-person therapy at Tanjong Pagar

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    Online therapy

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    Free 15-min consultation call

Been feeling lost?

Start feeling like yourself again.